It’s 2:45 on a Wednesday afternoon, and that means school is out at Highland Elementary in Sanford, NC. But not all of the students are hopping on buses or heading to the carpool line. In the school’s auditorium, students are filing in, putting their book bags in designated bins against the wall and settling into the center of the floor for the daily Devotion and Prayer. This is how the Fort Bragg Armed Services YMCA Before School/After School program begins each morning and afternoon. And from 5:45 a.m. until 6:45 p.m. “Ms. Vera” is there to make sure that the children get all the care, guidance and encouragement they need.
Vera Davis is the Site Director at Highland Elementary, where she provides child care to 67 Highland students who are children of military personnel and employees at Fort Bragg. When speaking with the children and parents who depend on this program, it becomes apparent that this is not your typical child care situation.
As CPT Ted Kuchta, who has been stationed at Fort Bragg for the past four years, puts it, “I am super picky about who watches my child, but the interaction and engagement that occurs here is amazing…the children love Ms. Vera.”
The hours of the program are also particularly well-suited for military families, whose schedules often don’t mesh with those of traditional childcare providers. Just ask Staff Sgt. Kathy Genevia, a single mother of two who has also been stationed at Fort Bragg for the past four years.
“There are days when PT [Physical Training] starts at 6:30 a.m. or we may have a class that runs long in the evening,” she said.
In addition to the flexible schedule the program provides, the parents also find that it helps their children to make productive use of before- and after-school time, which in turn allows them to have more meaningful time as a family when they get home.
Nine-year-old Leanna Genevia says the after-school program is a quiet place to do homework, which makes time at home more fun.
Spc. Nick Booth, who was recently transferred to Fort Bragg, said he notices a huge difference since his son joined the program.
“Family time in the evenings is better now,” he said. “We’re not just trying to get all the homework done. Instead we review what he has already finished and we have plenty of time to talk and play, too.”
Ms. Vera doesn’t mind the long hours each day, because she recognizes that through her work she is able to “make a difference in someone’s life.”
Vera Davis, now 61 with two daughters and two grandsons, was born and raised in the Netherlands. Her parents had moved there from Indonesia, and she remained there until meeting her husband who was in the U.S. Air Force. They moved from the Netherlands to Louisiana to Germany before finally being stationed at Pope Air Force Base and remaining in the Fayetteville area when her husband retired.
Ms. Vera has been working with children for the past 21 years and has been with the Fort Bragg Armed Services YMCA since 2002. She started the before and after school program at Highland three years ago and hopes to see it expand in the coming years. Ms. Vera says the program provides many advantages for military families over traditional child care situations. For instance, the program is on-site so there is no transportation, which gives parents peace of mind during the afternoons. Additionally, she notes that the fact that the program is run by the Fort Bragg ASYMCA gives military families a sense of comfort and community from day one.
As Ms. Vera put is, “The program is just one big family…kids, parents, and counselors.”
Parent Kathy Genevia agrees. She has been impressed with the care and follow-up from Ms. Vera. “She texts, emails…she’s very informative and makes sure to check up on the kids,” she said.
As much as Ms. Vera is loved and respected by the parents, her biggest fans are the 67 children in the program. Whether the kids are coming in or going home, they are quick to share a hug with Ms. Vera or tell her about their day. When asked to describe Ms. Vera, 8-year-old Logan’s eyes light up and he quickly offers his thoughts.
“She is great! And nice! And very funny!”
Seven-year-old Keenan explained that he had completed two drawings the day before. “When I showed them to Ms. Vera she said that they were amazing and that I would be an artist one day.”
It’s impossible to watch the daily interaction between Ms. Vera and the children and not leave with a Grin on your face.
However, it is also very noticeable that there are things about the program that can be improved, and unfortunately these are beyond Ms. Vera’s control. Her arts and crafts supplies are very limited and she often has to get creative to come up with ideas for art time; The games, books and school supplies on hand are old or in short supply; and perhaps the most glaring issue is the lack of computers and internet capability. This is a major problem when the children are trying to complete homework, because many of the older students require the use of a computer and an internet connection to finish their assignments.
But there is good news! Grins has worked with the Fort Bragg Armed Services YMCA and Ms. Vera to come up with a comprehensive list of supplies that will help continue making this program even better! And we can all be a part of the process. The Fort Bragg ASYMCA has created an option on their website where people can donate directly to the Before School/After School Program, and from now until the end of the year, Grins will match any donation that is made.
The families that I had the privilege of meeting at Highland Elementary are kind, tough, and resilient and sacrifice so much to do the important work of protecting our country. This is a chance for us to give something back to them in a meaningful and tangible way, and more importantly it is a chance to help some amazing kids and the amazing woman who helps them each day. Please visit https://www.asymca.org/fort-bragg-nc/get-involved/donate and designate your gift to “Before & After School Program.”